“I ask You to smooth out the tangled up places in my life…”
That’s how I began a journal entry dated August 23, 2023. And truthfully? I could’ve written that line yesterday.
Because life—real, raw, day-in-day-out life—is full of tangled-up places. Plans fall through. People disappoint. Communication breaks down. You try to do what’s right, but your efforts get twisted by someone else’s perspective, or worse—by silence. One situation leads to another, and before you know it, you’re stuck in a web of misunderstandings, emotional debris, and spiritual fatigue.
We don’t talk about that part enough. We rush to fix. We mask it with positivity. But the truth is: life is messy, and the longer we pretend it’s not, the further we drift from the only One who can do something with the mess.
God doesn’t need your situation to be neat and tidy before He can work. He specializes in taking what’s tangled and making it whole.
1 Chronicles 16:11 (NKJV) says,
“Seek the Lord and His strength; Seek His face evermore!”
That’s not a one-time action—it’s a lifestyle. We don’t just run to God in crisis. We learn to seek His face—His presence, His character, His will—continually. Especially when life looks like a mess of string we can’t sort out.
And here’s the shift: Peace doesn’t come from getting answers. It comes from getting God.
“The Lord is my portion,” says my soul, “Therefore I hope in Him!”
(Lamentations 3:24, NKJV)
If the Lord is your portion, then it means you don’t need to see the outcome to find rest. You don’t need resolution to find peace. Because He is enough—even in the uncertainty.
Let’s be real: sometimes we keep ourselves tied up in knots trying to understand everything, fix everyone, or manage every angle. But Isaiah 26:3 offers a better way:
“You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on You, because he trusts in You.”
God’s peace doesn’t come after the storm. It comes in the middle of it—when our mind is stayed (anchored, fixed) on Him.
Philippians 4:6–7 (NKJV) ties it all together:
“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God… will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”
That’s the process. We bring Him the mess—not once, but daily. We lay it down in prayer, thank Him for who He is, and then trust Him to guard our hearts with a peace that doesn’t always make sense—but always holds firm.
So if you’re in a tangled season, don’t pull away from God. Press in. Stop rehearsing the mess and start releasing it. The Lord is your portion. Not clarity. Not closure. Him.
And He’s never failed to untangle what we surrender into His hands.
Reflection Questions:
- What tangled area of your life needs God’s peace right now?
- Have you been seeking His face or just His hand?
- What’s one thing you need to release to Him today?

